Continued from: Splashing the Water
In a previous post I indicated that since joining Reddit, so so many sissies have been surfacing and reaching out. Some with new ideas for scenes within the Sims or to just say they're huge fans of the writing and this blog.
Many of the really feminine-forward looking ones are trying to peddle content on OF and the likes, other's just want to show off their locked "clitties". I've always known that there is a significant difference between a sissy, a crossdresser, a transgender person and a gay person.
Allow me some rope here but this is my take on it:
In this blog and in my real life experiences, a sissy is a heterosexual male who is choosing to submit to a dominant partner. Then, whether by coercion, blackmail, threats of punishment or some other illusion of non-consent, they are transformed into an exaggerated version of femininity by their dominant. From here, there could be activities intended to humiliate and shame the male, activities typically associated with a traditional gender-role of female.
There are plenty of stories of this nature on this blog and lots of sissies, even AI ones now!
A transgender male-to-female, has the hardware of a male but every fiber of their being is telling them they are female. Hormone replacement therapy might be involved, surgery and these people may have nothing to do with kink.
A crossdresser, again, maybe nothing to do with kink and just enjoys dressing up and a gay male, is romantically attracted to the same sex.
I came across a sub-group of sissies where the mentality is they are a failure as a "man", so they might as well serve an alpha man by becoming a sissy. These could be heterosexual men, possibly bi-curious and it almost seems like there is a reluctance to be a sissy or to be in chastity, but they know their penis is limp and useless to women.
And lastly, I found this one a bit confusing as this was the image. The person's description said "not into humiliation and not a sissy".
At the end of the day do any of these titles really matter? Provided everyone is safe, sane and consensual...isn't it just pleasure and happiness that is most important.
Heck, I even had one sissy contact me, looking to be a cuckold maid to a couple. Right away I thought of Sarah Jane and Russell, who graciously entertained the idea without hesitation. Their geographical proximity to this sissy was nice and close.
Is Russell going to feel jealously if Sarah starts Domme'ing and teasing a man who looks like this?
Is there any chance of Sarah wanting to leave Russell for this "man"? Probably not...
Sarah actually has this outfit, pictured above. Hehe, she's so cute. So is that sissy! Wouldn't they make cute playmates. There she is below:
Is it gay if Russell lets this chastity sissy suck his cock, to fluff him hard, only to then fuck Sarah in her little sailor candy-pop, schoolgirl outfit and socks?
Would Sarah Jane have any issue having sex with this person? Would Russell get jealous watching her with this "male"? Probably not...it would probably be super hot to watch!
Is it gay if Russell fucked this sissy in the bum? He's not romantically interested in men...Is it gay if a wife pegs her husband? No.
Anyway, I'll keep you posted on Russell and Sarah and whether or not they make a sissy three-way dynamic a reality. They are waiting to hear back from a little 5'6", 160 pound, chastity wearing, sissy maid.
In the meantime, I thought I'd ask one of the AI's what they thought about this subject matter.
The Sissy
In the realm of BDSM< the sissy slave embodies a unique fusion of submission, feminization, and eroticism. This individual, often male, assumes a subordinate role in a D/s relationship, voluntarily surrendering to their partner's authority.
Through acts of obedience, domestic service, and occasionally, erotic humiliation, the sissy slave seeks to express devotion and perhaps even access hidden facets of their psyche.
Their experiences might involve wearing feminine attire, adopting servile postures, or participating in role-playing scenarios that amplify feelings of vulnerability and dependence.
"Forced" cross-dressing represents a deliberate transgression against societal norms, heightening the sissy's sense of humiliation. Similarly, the use of a chastity cage, a symbol of denied pleasure and restricted freedom, becomes an instrument of psychological conditioning, tempering their libido whole intensifying desperation for release.
This exquisite blend of mortification and arousal serves to intensify their connection with their partner, fostering a deeper sense of trust and submission.
Not bad AI, not bad...
The Crossdresser
In contrast to the BDSM sissy slave, the crossdresser is an individual who adopts aspects of the opposite gender's attire, behaviours or mannerisms without necessarily identifying as submissive or engaging in BDSM practices. This form of expression can manifest in various ways, from occassional experimentation with makeup or hairstyles to embracing full-fledged personas during social gatherings.
Crucially, crossdressing is a personal choice, detached from sexual orientation or relationship dynamics. Consider an example, a man we'll call, James. Behind the façade of a successful businessman by day, he harbours a secret passion for feminine elegance. By night, James transforms into "Jaime Lynn," adorning himself in lace stockings, stiletto heels, and a flowing evening gown. This private ritual brings James a sense of tranquility, allowing him to momentarily escape the pressures of his daily life.
That momentary escape is much like adult spanking and cornertime, and the benefits associated with that.
The Transgender
Within the transgender community, personal narratives unfold like intricate tapestries, woven from threads of courage, resilience and determination. Consider Samantha, a young woman born biologically male, whose soul has always resonated with the rhythms of femininity.
As she embarks on her transformative journey, Samantha must confront the weight of societal expectations, forging an authentic path that reconciles her inner essence with the external world.
That one was a bit deep. I'm just happy I live in a place where "Samantha" is free and safe to identify as she wishes.
The Gay Man who enjoys feminine expression
In this realm, we find individuals who defy convention, blurting lines between sexuality, gender, and personal style. Take for instance, Marco and Patrick, two men deeply in love. As they weave a web of romance and intimacy, their relationship becomes a testament to the power of love, free from the constraints of societal expectation.
I could tell I was starting to lose the AI at this point, she was starting to get all whimsical and artsy between this one and the last description.
I'll wrap it there. A rose by ANY name...would smell as sweet. Stay locked gurls and be whomever or whatever you want to be! Don't let anyone tell you different.
Mistress Andrea
xoxo
A special thank you to sissy Naomi, the gorgeous little cutie with the dark eyes, above. A link to her content can be found here:
Continued in: Glitter and Gold
