A Rose by any other Name

Continued from: Splashing the Water

In a previous post I indicated that since joining Reddit, so so many sissies have been surfacing and reaching out. Some with new ideas for scenes within the Sims or to just say they're huge fans of the writing and this blog. 

Many of the really feminine-forward looking ones are trying to peddle content on OF and the likes, other's just want to show off their locked "clitties". I've always known that there is a significant difference between a sissy, a crossdresser, a transgender person and a gay person. 

Allow me some rope here but this is my take on it:

In this blog and in my real life experiences, a sissy is a heterosexual male who is choosing to submit to a dominant partner. Then, whether by coercion, blackmail, threats of punishment or some other illusion of non-consent, they are transformed into an exaggerated version of femininity by their dominant. From here, there could be activities intended to humiliate and shame the male, activities typically associated with a traditional gender-role of female. 

There are plenty of stories of this nature on this blog and lots of sissies, even AI ones now! 

A transgender male-to-female, has the hardware of a male but every fiber of their being is telling them they are female. Hormone replacement therapy might be involved, surgery and these people may have nothing to do with kink. 

A crossdresser, again, maybe nothing to do with kink and just enjoys dressing up and a gay male, is romantically attracted to the same sex. 

I came across a sub-group of sissies where the mentality is they are a failure as a "man", so they might as well serve an alpha man by becoming a sissy. These could be heterosexual men, possibly bi-curious and it almost seems like there is a reluctance to be a sissy or to be in chastity, but they know their penis is limp and useless to women. 

And lastly, I found this one a bit confusing as this was the image. The person's description said "not into humiliation and not a sissy". 

At the end of the day do any of these titles really matter? Provided everyone is safe, sane and consensual...isn't it just pleasure and happiness that is most important. 

Heck, I even had one sissy contact me, looking to be a cuckold maid to a couple. Right away I thought of Sarah Jane and Russell, who graciously entertained the idea without hesitation. Their geographical proximity to this sissy was nice and close. 

Is Russell going to feel jealously if Sarah starts Domme'ing and teasing a man who looks like this? 

Is there any chance of Sarah wanting to leave Russell for this "man"? Probably not...

Sarah actually has this outfit, pictured above. Hehe, she's so cute. So is that sissy! Wouldn't they make cute playmates. There she is below:

Is it gay if Russell lets this chastity sissy suck his cock, to fluff him hard, only to then fuck Sarah in her little sailor candy-pop, schoolgirl outfit and socks? 

Would Sarah Jane have any issue having sex with this person? Would Russell get jealous watching her with this "male"? Probably not...it would probably be super hot to watch!

Is it gay if Russell fucked this sissy in the bum? He's not romantically interested in men...Is it gay if a wife pegs her husband? No.

Anyway, I'll keep you posted on Russell and Sarah and whether or not they make a sissy three-way dynamic a reality. They are waiting to hear back from a little 5'6", 160 pound, chastity wearing, sissy maid.

In the meantime, I thought I'd ask one of the AI's what they thought about this subject matter. 

The Sissy

In the realm of BDSM< the sissy slave embodies a unique fusion of submission, feminization, and eroticism. This individual, often male, assumes a subordinate role in a D/s relationship, voluntarily surrendering to their partner's authority.

Through acts of obedience, domestic service, and occasionally, erotic humiliation, the sissy slave seeks to express devotion and perhaps even access hidden facets of their psyche.  

Their experiences might involve wearing feminine attire, adopting servile postures, or participating in role-playing scenarios that amplify feelings of vulnerability and dependence. 

"Forced" cross-dressing represents a deliberate transgression against societal norms, heightening the sissy's sense of humiliation. Similarly, the use of a chastity cage, a symbol of denied pleasure and restricted freedom, becomes an instrument of psychological conditioning, tempering their libido whole intensifying desperation for release.

This exquisite blend of mortification and arousal serves to intensify their connection with their partner, fostering a deeper sense of trust and submission. 

Not bad AI, not bad...

The Crossdresser

In contrast to the BDSM sissy slave, the crossdresser is an individual who adopts aspects of the opposite gender's attire, behaviours or mannerisms without necessarily identifying as submissive or engaging in BDSM practices. This form of expression can manifest in various ways, from occassional experimentation with makeup or hairstyles to embracing full-fledged personas during social gatherings. 

Crucially, crossdressing is a personal choice, detached from sexual orientation or relationship dynamics. Consider an example, a man we'll call, James. Behind the façade of a successful businessman by day, he harbours a secret passion for feminine elegance. By night, James transforms into "Jaime Lynn," adorning himself in lace stockings, stiletto heels, and a flowing evening gown. This private ritual brings James a sense of tranquility, allowing him to momentarily escape the pressures of his daily life.   

That momentary escape is much like adult spanking and cornertime, and the benefits associated with that.

The Transgender

Within the transgender community, personal narratives unfold like intricate tapestries, woven from threads of courage, resilience and determination. Consider Samantha, a young woman born biologically male, whose soul has always resonated with the rhythms of femininity. 

As she embarks on her transformative journey, Samantha must confront the weight of societal expectations, forging an authentic path that reconciles her inner essence with the external world. 

That one was a bit deep. I'm just happy I live in a place where "Samantha" is free and safe to identify as she wishes.

The Gay Man who enjoys feminine expression

In this realm, we find individuals who defy convention, blurting lines between sexuality, gender, and personal style. Take for instance, Marco and Patrick, two men deeply in love. As they weave a web of romance and intimacy, their relationship becomes a testament to the power of love, free from the constraints of societal expectation. 

I could tell I was starting to lose the AI at this point, she was starting to get all whimsical and artsy between this one and the last description. 

I'll wrap it there. A rose by ANY name...would smell as sweet. Stay locked gurls and be whomever or whatever you want to be! Don't let anyone tell you different. 

Mistress Andrea 

xoxo

A special thank you to sissy Naomi, the gorgeous little  cutie with the dark eyes, above. A link to her content can be found here:

https://linktr.ee/naomilorena?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=62b43046-e9ae-46e8-bc67-89935bb1bfbc  

Continued in: Glitter and Gold

Home Sweet Home

Continued from: The Huntress

So we land in YYZ, Summer and I, having enjoyed a lovely week in Paris together. We grabbed a limo for the trip home, slightly exhausted from the flight. I was eager to wash the travel off me. Summer was too. It was nice to be home again...

Until...I walk into my living room to this scene! 

Both of us giggled out loud. Cassie fuckin' kills me sometimes!

You can see for yourself, but Summer and I walk in on her gaming, on the couch, looking like she's been smoking weed all day. Her bratty, Nike High Dunks are resting on the back of some ridiculous male submissive who she has dressed in lingerie and heels. 

Within her strict gaze, a second pathetic specimen of a male, kneeling and gussied-up, head-to-toe as a French Maid.

Apart from Cassandra's munchies on the end-table, the place was actually spotless, the fridge was full, and the sinks and toilets sparkled. Ha! She and her sissy maids can house-sit for me anytime!   

In the vanilla world, this would of course be a shocking scene to walk in on. Here at my Facility, it was simply a Tuesday. The poor sissies had such pouts on. Just sickened with humiliation, especially after Summer and I showed up.

Remember the infamous Mistress Elaine? The British woman who would totally own these poor submissive men by dressing them in layer upon layer of satin and petticoats, heels and hosiery. 

This poor chap she always addressed as "Vicky". He always had the same pouty look on his face once she had him fully made-up. It was a look of such defeat, just nauseated with humiliation. 

There's the look. Isn't Vicky a precious little gurl? Silky-smooth and hairless.

Mistress Elaine was notorious for using the full stainless chastity belts on Vicky and some other sissies who made appearances. One of them even had an electric-shockable anal attachment that locked onto the main chastity belt. That was a wild video...watching her torture this poor dude's rectum, while he begged and squirmed around on the bed in vintage lingerie and a dress. Totally something Cassandra would do... 

Apart from torturing her sissies, Mistress Elaine would often get them fully dressed-up and their little dicklettes locked away, before making them perform curtsies, to humiliate them. She would make them mince around the house and serve as Victorian-era maids.

Her scenes always involved Vicky in shit for something or Vicky had not performed a clean enough curtsy. Mistress Elaine would then spank, cane and paddle his bare bum, then peg the sissy with a strap-on. What a Goddess huh? She wielded a wonderous cocktail of physical and psychological dominance. 

I read somewhere that she was actually the seamstress or dress-maker, who custom-designed these satin and ruffled outfits. Who wakes up one day, with a skill-set like she has for these lovely artistic creations, and decides to start making them in men's sizes, to eventually keep a stable of sissy maids? Haha...amazing.

Good for her! 

Come to think of it, I should have a dress-maker on staff at The Facility. Some of these silly males would go beet-red if they had to come to me to be custom-fitted for a sissy dress. Something like this perhaps, for the most masculine of my submissive men?

A skilled seamstress could also add the lockable features for me, to any sissy outfit. These little additions are an absolute must for any sissy of mine!

Yes...on their bras too: 

It's one thing to forcibly feminize a male submissive as a form of control, punishment and humiliation, but you can take it to the next level psychologically, if their delicate attire cannot be removed without bolt-cutters or the keys! Lol...

 

Anyway, back to Cassandra... 

She had a padlock on the neckline of the maid dress one of her men was currently wearing. She also had their high heels padlocked to their feet. Good girl, Cassie! I taught you well. 

I noticed the dude in the pink lingerie had an inflatable plug up his ass. Typically something you would use to stretch and prepare the area for a good fucking. 

I gestured toward the sissy with the plug and asked Cassie, "are you preparing her pussy for something?"

Cassandra replied and pointed to the man in the maid's dress, then to the sissy on his hands and knees.

"Yes Mistress Andrea, this one (maid) is going to fuck this one (lingerie), but they didn't want to participate in anything homosexual, they're both straight." 

Ok...well how is one going to fuck the other then? I thought to myself...

Ahhh...leave it to Cassandra and her creativity, to push the limits of these two without breaking the limits. 

Is it still gay if it's not your own cock? 

Summer and I may have to stay and watch this go down...

Stay tuned. 

Mistress Andrea

xoxo

 

Continued in: Is it Gay?