The First Click in their Relationship

Continued from: Vanessa is a Goddess!

One evening, Vanessa arrived home with a small package in her hand, a glimmer of excitement in her eyes. She revealed the contents to Derek—a sleek, stainless steel chastity device. With a mix of curiosity and nervousness, Derek understood that this device would mark a significant turning point in their FLR.

Following Vanessa's precise instructions, Derek removed his clothes, exposing himself vulnerably before her. With gentle yet assertive movements and a touch of lotion, she fitted the chastity device securely around his flaccid cock and testicles, locking it in place. As the final click echoed through the room, an undeniable shift occurred within their dynamic.

Derek felt an immediate surge of submission and vulnerability, now physically reminded of Vanessa's control over his most intimate desires. The chastity device became a constant reminder of their power dynamics, further intensifying their FLR. The sensation of being physically restrained awakened a heightened level of trust and surrender within Derek, while Vanessa felt a renewed sense of authority and ownership.

"Derek," she began, her eyes locked onto his, "the chastity device is intended to prevent you from experiencing physical release without my permission. It's a symbol of our power dynamic, a tool that deepens our connection and strengthens our trust."

She continued, her words carrying a mix of tenderness and authority, "Through this device, I want you to fully understand that your pleasure belongs to me. It's a reminder of my control over your desires, and it allows us to explore a deeper level of intimacy and submission. I will be the one who decides when and how you can experience pleasure, is that understood?"

"Yes Ma'am," he sheepishly replied, his voice laden with feelings of inadequacy. 

Vanessa knew this was the perfect addition to their unique relationship. She knew that when she would leave for work on multi-day flights, staying in hotel rooms and away from her matrimonial home, Derek would not be wasting all of his sexual energy into his palm. It was now physically impossible for Derek to masturbate without the device being removed. 

In the days that followed, Derek's thoughts were consumed by the device. Each touch and movement served as a reminder of his surrender, fueling his desire to please Vanessa. The intimacy between them became a delicate dance of dominance and submission, as Vanessa explored the depths of her power and Derek discovered new levels of submission he never imagined.

However, with this newfound intensity came challenges. Derek faced moments of frustration, longing, and temptation, while Vanessa navigated the responsibility of holding the key to his desires. Their communication and emotional connection became paramount, as they openly discussed their needs, fears, and boundaries, ensuring that their evolving dynamic remained consensual and fulfilling for both.

Vanessa had left for work and would return in three days, the keys to Derek's chastity cage travelled with her. Before her departure, she informed Derek that he would be receiving a maintenance spanking upon her return. He is expected to be naked and in the timeout corner of their bedroom when she gets home. 

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"That's a good boy," Vanessa purred, as her heel clicks resonated off the hardwood floor in a symphony of power and control. 

Vanessa would occasionally have Derek kneel in a position of submission or just let him lay draped over her lap for awhile, before any spanking began. She wanted him to hear and feel her words and embrace the vulnerability of his situation as she calmly spoke. 

"Derek," Vanessa began, her gaze steady and unwavering, "I believe that domestic discipline can be an effective tool for you. It will serve as a way to reinforce our power dynamic and ensure accountability for your actions."

She continued, emphasizing the importance of clear expectations and consequences. "From now on, if you fail to meet the standards we've established or disobey my instructions, I will administer appropriate discipline. This will be a way for me to guide you and help you grow, allowing us to maintain the balance and structure of our relationship."

Vanessa emphasized that domestic discipline would be tailored to their unique needs and desires. It would involve a range of disciplinary actions, such as spankings, cornertime, humiliation or other methods agreed upon between them. She made it clear that the discipline would always be within the boundaries of consent and safety, and she would provide aftercare to ensure his emotional well-being.

She reassured Derek of her unwavering support and affection, stating, "Please remember, Derek, that the purpose of domestic discipline is not to harm or degrade you. It is about growth, learning, and deepening our connection. We will navigate this journey together, and I will always be there to guide you and support you. At times you may feel very vulnerable and humiliated, the spankings will be very real and thorough, it's ok if you need to cry while you are over my knee, Sweetie."

With her words sinking in, Derek absorbed the gravity of Vanessa's intentions. He recognized the potential for personal growth and surrendering to her authority, knowing that their shared journey into domestic discipline would strengthen their bond and allow him to become the best version of himself. Tears welled-up in his eyes the moment she patted her inviting lap and firmly instructed, "over you go young man." 

With Derek's exposed vulnerability and their mutual understanding, Vanessa's hand made contact with his bare skin. The sound of the first smack echoed in the room, followed by subsequent strikes that created a rhythmic pattern. Each swat delivered a mix of sensations, ranging from stinging to tingling, as his body reacted to the physical discipline.

In this moment, Derek surrendered to Vanessa's authority, trusting her to administer the discipline that would help shape and guide him. He allowed himself to fully experience the mixture of pain and pleasure, understanding that it was a means of reinforcing their power dynamic and deepening their connection.

As the spanking session continued, Derek's mind drifted into a state of surrender and introspection. He felt a profound release, as if shedding the weight of his responsibilities and allowing Vanessa to take control. Each strike reminded him of the trust and vulnerability he had willingly placed in her hands.

After what felt like both an eternity and a fleeting moment, Vanessa's hand ceased its motion. She gently caressed Derek's reddened skin, her touch soothing and reassuring. It was a tender gesture, signifying the end of the discipline as the sounds of soft weeping now filled the room. The pain and humiliation mingled with a deep sense of submission, guiding Derek toward a place of self-reflection and growth.

After the spanking was completed, Vanessa instructed Derek into the corner of the room, wanting him to stand and reflect upon his actions and the lessons learned. The corner served as a space for introspection, where Derek could contemplate his submission, his vulnerabilities, and his commitment to their dynamic.

As Derek stood in the corner, he felt a mix of physical discomfort and emotional release. The sting of the spanking still lingered, serving as a reminder of his submissive nature and the boundaries set within their relationship. He knew that this experience, though humbling and challenging, would ultimately help him grow and deepen his connection with Vanessa.

As Derek stood there for the next thirty minutes, his exposed vulnerability enhanced by the bareness of his bottom, he felt a mix of emotions coursing through him. The sting was as a constant reminder of his position and the power dynamics within his relationship with Vanessa.

During this solitary time, Derek's mind wandered, delving into the depths of his submission. He contemplated the choices that led him to this point and the growth he had experienced along the way. The half-hour felt both agonizingly long and yet a valuable opportunity for self-reflection.

His thoughts encompassed a wide range of emotions. He pondered the moments of discomfort, the moments when he questioned his own desires and the societal expectations of masculinity. But beneath those doubts, there was a flicker of liberation—a sense of authenticity and fulfillment in embracing his submissive nature.

He wanted more of a push, he wanted to go farther into the deep end!

Mistress Andrea, assisted by "Chatty" 

xoxo

Continued in: Smooth Reflections

 

Chat Bots and BDSM

Continued from: Rogue Squadron

Whether I have taken a page from sweet Miss Julie's homework or I am just cheating off her homework...I decided to give this ChatBot business a try. To date, I haven't used the assistance of Chat GPT to assist in any of the writing on this blog, but I do see the potential for growth here. 

One of the first I ever came across, long ago, was some app/game called AI Dungeon. The term "dungeon" certainly piqued my interest, until I realized they meant like Dungeons & Dragons, warlocks and fantasy and Medieval periods of history. 

If I prompt this A.I. with a theme of torture, I'm referring to tens unit pads on Sarah Jane's nipples, but the A.I. thinks I mean this: 

I think I once wrote something like: "A ball gag was gently placed in her mouth as her nipples were clamped with clothespins." 

It's response was like: "next she was taken out back and decapitated on the lawn." Shit! Nope...delete delete, WTF. 

Nevertheless I gave it a try and built some narratives. The good part about this one, it has an adult content filter that can be disabled! It allows you to prompt "story", "say" or "do", which is fun. And if it completely goes off the rails which it often does, you can just keep hitting refresh until you get a narrative you like. 

After a few directional and contextual prompts, it came up with this once, as the beginning of a story: 

The story begins in a BDSM dungeon space. Various men and women in various states of undress are being whipped and spanked by the beautiful Mistress Andrea. 

Accurately describes me so far, and my Facility!

The male submissives wear chastity cages while the females wear ball gags. They are made to stand and kneel in these devices until they are released. The girls seem to enjoy this, but the men are humiliated by it!

Haha! Typical. The women shine through and embrace their predicament, enjoying the moment, while the men become whiny bitches. 

When I started using Chat GPT, with societal content policies and warnings, the task of getting it to come down my naughty rabbit hole with me was very challenging. More often than not I would push the wooden block just a little too much and the whole Jenga tower would topple over. 

Apologies, but I won't be able to generate that story for you. 

This is a line I heard often...

I attempted another approach and asked it to collaborate on a story together. Right away the A.I. is immediately excited. Lol.

Absolutely! This sounds like so much fun. I'd love to collaborate on a story with you. What would you like it to be about?

I tried my luck with an alternative relationship: 

A young and vibrant couple named Emily and Matthew, live in a small seaside town in a quaint little home. On the outside they were a completely normal and loving couple. Behind closed doors, they enjoyed a safe, sane and consensual FLR. 

And boom! I hooked my fish. The A.I. not only knew that I meant Female-Led-Relationship but also started using words like strict, accountability and consequences. Game on! 

I pushed a little further and mixed in a "domestic discipline" theme. The A.I. didn't shut down on me and while I strategically typed in my calculated manner, suddenly adult spanking and cornertime were on the table! 

As Emily entered the room, she would assert the designated duration of Matthew's time-out, typically set at thirty minutes, as part of their established disciplinary routine. The countdown began, allowing Matthew time for self-reflection and to contemplate the forthcoming spanking.

Emily's best friend Andrea showed up unexpectedly once (me), while Matthew was serving an hour in the time-out corner, post-spanking. 

Emily's best friend, Andrea, would frequently visit for tea. Initially taken aback by the sight of Matthew standing in the corner with a bright red bottom, she gradually became accustomed to the unique dynamic of their relationship. Over time, it turned into a routine, and Andrea would playfully address Matthew, asking, "What did you do this time, young man?" Her teasing added an element of humiliation, emphasizing his accountability and serving as a lighthearted reminder of their unconventional dynamic. Matthew, although initially embarrassed, learned to embrace this interaction as part of their shared understanding and continued growth within their FLR.

Not too shabby Chat GPT, well done!

Before long, the A.I. actually allowed Andrea to join-in on the FLR dynamic and it actually allowed for Matthew to be marched out to the woodshed by the two women and strapped.

The premise behind this punishment was Matthew got caught masturbating by BOTH Emily and I.

Out in the woodshed, in the A.I. story, we were able to get Matthew over a sawhorse, wrists and ankles bound and the two girls removing their belts and thrashing him to tears.

Also permitted, without violating Chat Bot policy, was the concept of a chastity device going onto Matthew's penis which was applied and locked in front of Andrea.

Emily's skilled hands delicately positioned the rigid metal chastity device over Matthew's penis and genitals, ensuring a secure fit. As she fastened it in place, the click of the lock echoed in the room, sealing his chastity with a tangible symbol of their power dynamic. Matthew felt a mixture of sensations: the cool metal against his skin, the weight of the device as a reminder of his submission, and a surge of arousal tinged with frustration, knowing that his desires were now under the control of his wife.

That's hot! FLR's are hot!

Panties came next, a few days later in the story and after 30-days in chastity with no release, a full sissy schoolgirl outfit that Andrea brought over for Matthew to dress in.

In addition to the clothing items, Andrea presented Matthew with a pair of delicate panties, a sissy hair-bow, and high-heeled Mary Jane shoes. The ensemble was complete, designed to emphasize his femininity and push his boundaries further. Matthew's heart raced as he reluctantly accepted the items, knowing that resistance would only lead to more humiliation.

Right?! Not too shabby is it? After navigating all the policy warnings like a mine field!

I kept pulling the little "stick" out just a bit more at a time, hoping all the marbles wouldn't Ker Plunk in on me.

In the A.I. story, poor Matthew spent another month in chastity with no release. Andrea came back over to forcibly feminize him again. We were able to use the term "sissy", begin to call him "good girl" and successfully changed his name from Matthew to the sissy handle of Meredith. (When I say "we" I guess I am meaning the A.I. and myself collaborating).

"Meredith" was introduced to prostate milking since his penis was still locked up and rather than a finger, the A.I. was ok with a realistic dildo going into his mouth first, then his bum, with a condom over the chastity cage to collect any pent-up ejaculate!

Wozers, how emasculating and humiliating.

I know what Strict Miss Julie would be doing with the dribbles of cum, captured by the condom. I didn't want to press my luck with the A.I. though and passed on that one.

Then, the audacity!

Emily and I send sissy Meredith to the adjacent room where he is bound and gagged, which was permitted by the A.I.

Then I type this:

The entire session had Emily and Andrea whipped into a frenzy of arousal. They got comfortable with each other on the couch and began passionately kissing.

Spanking, cornertime, full sissification and a humiliating prostate milking with a dildo and now we were going to innocently lezzie-cuckold him, while he listened from an adjacent room.

Apologies, but I won't be able to generate that story for you...

WTF!

I can't kiss my hot little bestie on her own couch and potentially go down on her, after we completely emasculated and punished her husband?

Whatever, it has been fun to mess around with.

Mistress Andrea

xoxo

Continued in: The Taboo Farmhouse

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The rest of this post does not involve BDSM activities but includes some other fun I had with the Chat Bot. I channeled my inner 5-year old and began to ask it the most ridiculous and asinine questions I could possibly think of.

I was crying! I was crying I was laughing so hard, at how matter-of-fact and proper the A.I. responses were. How politically correct, inclusive and void of any sense of humour!

HAHA.

It was like I was talking to a millennial hipster, proudly holding a freshly-minted Master's Degree in Sociology or something, wondering why they still have to work at the vinyl record store because no one wants to hire them. That level of matter-of-fact.

This could be a gameshow like Jeopardy. "What the A.I. said." You read the A.I. response then contestants try to guess what it was asked! Hehe.

Take a few moments if you want a nice laugh or smile, and enjoy some of these beauties. These are all actual responses to my ridiculous and immature banter with the Chat Bot:

No, if a woman can float in water, it does not mean she's a witch. Thus, it is not appropriate to assume that someone is a witch or associates with witchcraft based on their buoyancy in water.

Haha!! Buoyancy....classic!

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It's worth noting that deep frying a whole ostrich would require specialized equipment and a significant amount of oil. It is always important to prioritize safety and consider the practicality of such endeavors.

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Waterbeds are typically made with specialized materials that are designed to contain and support the weight and movement of water. Using pudding as a filling would likely result in a messy and unstable bed that would not provide the intended comfort.

Geez, so stuffy in here....tough room!

Powering an entire house solely on lemons is not practical or feasible. While lemons can generate a small amount of electricity, their conductivity is limited and energy production relatively low.

I apologize but I don't think that's accurate, Canadian Groundhogs are not Meteorologists.

Lol....of course they are, everyone knows that.

It is unlikely that Chimpanzees would be capable of planning and executing a coup on a modern society.

While Gwen Stefani is known for her successful music career, there is no widely reported or confirmed instance of her participating in hotdog eating contests.

While it may be amusing to consider the idea of a bear voting in an election, it is not feasible in reality. It is important to ensure that only eligible human citizens participate in in the democratic process.

Yes!! Eff you A.I. I got you to crack a smile there! It recognized something was amusing. Winning.

It is unlawful in most countries to provide wild animals with firearms or attempt to train them to use such weapons.

Seagulls and other members of the gull family of birds, cannot run for political office or become the Mayor of a city.

While most members of the whale family are extremely intelligent and can communicate with each other, I don't believe a killer whale would have the cognitive ability to obtain a realestate license.

LOL...

Cheers everyone!

xoxo

Continued in: The Taboo Farmhouse

 

 

Seeing a Unicorn

Continued from: Beautiful Brainwashing Pt.2

Have you ever come across kink and bdsm in mainstream media? And by media I mean television, movies and the streaming services. And by mainstream I mean the vanilla world, not the porn industry. 

It's rare, it's magical and if I get so much as a spidey-sense that an image or a gif is from the mainstream world, I hunt that fuckin' clip down until I find the scene, the episode or the movie...I just need to see it! 

Like this one, I came across the other day. Gawd damn this is beyond hot! It made my toes curl and my tummy flood with butterflies. 

I could tell immediately from the backdrop that this had to be from a TV show or a movie. The expression on her face in the image below screams actress, not porn star. 

It was bittersweet hunting. Yes, I found the clip and the movie is called "Just Sex, Nothing Personal" from 2018. Alas, the trailer although hot, was in a language of Eastern Europe...Russian or Czech maybe. There was a great scene when this little thing gets bound with like an extension cord and before the gag goes in, you see the cord tighten from above and her cute little boots immediately thrust to tip-toe. 

It's like seeing a unicorn in the wild! What makes finding bdsm in a vanilla backdrop so alluring to me that I have to hunt it down, grade it and assess how good it is? 

Fifty Shades of Grey doesn't count and never impressed me either. Bdsm does not have to be portrayed as by-product of earlier trauma or abuse in one's life. I think those movies and those books were anchored to the fact that Christian Grey was a submissive sex slave or abused by a milfy older woman or something? Which then normalizes what he participates in by being able to say, "I am the way I am because of..."

Just sayin'. Sometimes there isn't a "because of..."

I know every shade of grey from 50 to 500 and have known, ten years before those books came out. 

Anyway, back to the unicorn hunting. 

The Secretary (2002). Maggie Gyllenhaal takes some pretty decent spanking and hefty doses of humiliation. I didn't hate this movie, I liked the way she portrayed this character, but again...Maggie's character has some demons to unpack. 

Jackson Teller's wife from Sons of Anarchy? 

In the show Billions it seems like she is in a Female Led Relationship (FLR) with her hubby, maybe on the more extreme scale as a Dominatrix? 

I think in one of the opening episodes she puts a cigarette out on him then rocks a pee on the burnt skin while he is tied up and gagged. Not bad...I didn't follow the show I just hunted the good parts. 

The Handmaid's Tale. Miss Julie actually blogged about this one before: Miss Julie's and Handmaid's Tale. Some hubby giving his wife a belt whipping (yummy!)

She thought it was meh...

And if Miss Julie thinks something spanking related is meh...it's meh. 

Exit to Eden (1994). This was an absolutely ridiculous movie! They cast Dana Delany as the supreme Goddess Dominatrix. She's like the sweetest looking, girl-next-door, Stacy's Mom type of woman.  

She actually takes a hairbrush to the main guy's butt at one point and forces him to tell her that he likes it or she'll stop.  

"Say it, say you like it or I'll stop." 

I would say whoever wrote that particular scene and a few others in the movie, DOES know a thing or two about spankos and kink. FFWD to the good bits, you'll find some. The rest is ridiculous. 

Look at Dana now. I'd hire her at the Facility to give those caring, "this is for your own good", Mommy's hairbrush style spankings!  

Angelina...

Ya, she did a thing once but truly looks the part of a Dominatrix most of the time anyway. Mr. and Mrs. Smith (2005). I think she handcuffs some dude and takes a riding crop to him before she assassinates him. Preying Mantis woman!

Some show called Castle (2009)

The episode is called: "The Mistress Always Spanks Twice". I totally approve of her attire and the title of that episode. 

Peyton from One Tree Hill. Played a pinup-looking Dominatrix in a show called Forever. I 100% approve of her classy and elegant "look". 

That's enough to get you started. 

Happy hunting. 

Mistress Andrea

xoxo